natured:
It’s alright to miss people you no longer want in your life.
Some people are genuinely troubled processing these feelings, because no one has been like “ HEY THIS IS TOTALLY NORMAL” so here I am..
You miss what that person represented to you at one time, the good memories, you miss who they were, not who they became. Hell, they don’t even need to have changed into somebody that sucks. You could have just grown apart. AND YA KNOW WHAT? That’s okay too.
Stop punishing yourself for noticing the absence of a past friend or lover. It’s okay to acknowledge that they meant something to you at one point in time. Even if you have a new best friend or lover, that doesn’t lessen your bonds with them. It. Is. Okay.
(via xtravegantweakness)